The decision to have a child must be made by both spouses, but men are less likely than women to strive for prolongation of the family. Instead of making scandals and quarrels, trick him into wanting a baby.
Instructions
Step 1
Respect his opinion. Even if you are greatly upset by the position of your husband, do not make scandals, do not blackmail the man and do not throw cruel words. Having a baby is a serious step and it takes some time to decide on it. You can help your husband by encouraging him to make the right decision.
Step 2
Do not try to get pregnant thinking "it will get used to it later." A large burden of responsibility that has fallen on an unprepared man can push him to leave the family. And if it remains, the thought of an "unwanted" child may haunt him for a long time.
Step 3
Find out the reasons why he does not want children. There is often an underlying reason behind the standard excuses about not having enough money and not being ready. It can be self-doubt, fear of being forgotten by a loved one, or a serious intention to never have children. In each case, you need to find an individual approach, choose the right words and save a man from his fears.
Step 4
Go with your husband to visit where there are children. Arrange with friends who already have a child to visit them. Guess the time when the baby is in a good mood, is not capricious and is in the mood for communication. Men communicate more easily with grown-up children, aged 3-4 years. After talking to the baby, talking to his father, your husband may want to have a baby himself.
Step 5
Get the support of family and friends. A man's parents may wish to nurse their grandchildren. Talk to his loved ones, ask for advice, ask for help, perhaps their opinion will be decisive.
Step 6
Hurry it up. If the reason for the delay is unavailability, remind your husband of his biological clock. Every year he gets older, health problems appear. It is easier to conceive a healthy and strong baby at a young age.
