Every family needs to be continued. How wonderful it is to hear the bursting laughter of children at home. But what if the husband does not want to have offspring?
Instructions
Step 1
Fear of responsibility. Perhaps a man does not mind having a child, but he is not confident in his abilities, he thinks that he will not cope with such a serious task. Alternatively, you can get a dog. Feeling the love of an animal, you understand that all efforts are rewarded. Invite a family with children to visit, let your man see with a living example that being a father is not at all scary, but absolutely natural. Tell about yourself how your father raised and raised you.
Step 2
Perhaps a man is not completely sure of his feelings for you, is he ready to live with you all his life? Tying yourself as a child is wrong. If you got married recently, then you should not rush with children, first you need to build a solid foundation of family relationships. If you are in each other, something does not suit you, you should figure it out. Calmly discuss all questions and problems with your spouse.
Step 3
The man claims that before having a child, he first needs to get stronger financially, he wants to feel confident in the future. A man wants the child to have all the best, and if his wife also has high material needs, then he feels that he cannot cope and the question of the child is postponed until better times. In this case, reduce your needs, show your husband that the essentials are enough for you, and the love and care of the parents are first of all important for the child, and not expensive things and toys.
Step 4
If your husband already has children from his first marriage, then the problem becomes somewhat more complicated. The man could not appreciate all the joy of fatherhood and is afraid of repeating history. Or he simply does not want to burden himself with a second child, one is quite enough. Explain to the man that a child is not only one problem, joyful moments overlap all difficulties and are worth all the effort.
Step 5
A man may be afraid that with the appearance of a baby, his usual way of life will be destroyed, all attention will be paid to the child. He may also worry that pregnancy will completely change his wife's appearance for the worse. Reassure your husband that you are not going to put an end to yourself, the whole world does not end with the child, there will always be you and him, and it is just as important for you to spend time with your beloved husband and pay attention to him. Say that you also enjoy being slim and attractive, and you will make an effort to keep it that way forever.
