Conflicts and quarrels sometimes arise between a man and a woman who are married. One of the reasons for the misunderstanding is the unwillingness of the husband to listen to his wife.
Why doesn't the husband listen to his wife?
When examining this issue, another one arises: is it part of the husband's obligation to listen to his wife in everything? Maybe, on the contrary, the wife should obey her husband? After all, the husband is the head of the family.
In some cases, the dictum that a husband should obey his wife is wrong. The wife herself must ensure that her husband begins to respect her, and, accordingly, listen to her opinion, and try to resolve family issues with her. After all, judge for yourself, you will never listen to the opinion of the person who is not so important to you or who simply does not command your respect, that is, does not have authority. If a wife shows her stupidity day after day and cannot be of any use to her husband, naturally, the husband begins to neglect her advice, considering it pointless. In such cases, the husband will constantly contradict his wife in everything. On an instinctive level, he will begin to contradict all the statements of his legal wife and will do the opposite.
What a wife is like a husband
Almost everything in the house depends on the wife. Sometimes you have to re-educate your husbands, and many of them discover qualities that you would never have thought about, and this is not even about the bad traits of his character. For example, before the wedding, the husband always insisted that he was not going to do female housework, as it was humiliating. And suddenly, after the wedding, the next feast, the husband got up and washed all the dishes or tidied up the house. This action is completely normal. Do not think that you can now command your husband. He just helped you fulfill your responsibilities.
Often, women want to show in public how they educate their husbands in order to raise their dignity and authority. However, it is not. The more a wife shows that she has influence on her husband, the more humiliates him, and a moment will come when he will get tired of all this, and he will stop listening to his wife and will not take her opinion into account at all. Just show your loved one your real wisdom in advice, and he himself will feel that he has a need for you.
The fact that you are trying to change your husband should not be known to anyone except you, not even your husband. Better to let him think that everything he does happens only from his own considerations and concepts, and not according to your instructions. Men are the stronger sex, and they will never allow themselves to be commanded and controlled. However, it is worth remembering the popular wisdom: the husband is the head, and the wife is the neck (wherever she wants, she will turn her head there).
If your husband does not listen to you, look for the problem in yourself, maybe you are doing something wrong. You will never succeed in scandals and misunderstandings. Make your lawful spouse feel how much he needs you, just do not put it on display. Be meek, quiet, peaceful, wise, kind, and only then will your husband reach out to you, and he himself will want to do something pleasant for you.
