A man can discuss his future divorce with his mistress, complain about family life, talk about love, promise to marry, but at the same time come only to meetings and not take any action. Most likely, he was not going to part with his wife, and here's why.
A man can persistently insist that in fact he has not had anything with his wife for a long time, and in a minute he will be divorcing … Unfortunately, this is the so-called old song, which many unfaithful husbands wash their eyes with their mistresses, while leading a calm family life. Of course, there are exceptions to this rule, but they are relatively rare. Why does a man prefer to stay with his wife and not go to another? Here is a list of the most common reasons.
1. Does not want to lose touch with children
Divorce is associated with limiting contact with children. They usually stay with the mother, and the father sometimes sees them. In addition, in many situations, a son or daughter, having learned that his beloved dad is cheating on his mother, does not want to talk to him. Even if time heals the wounds and the relationship with the child returns to normal, the divorce and its reasons will still be remembered.
2. A lover is just an outlet from everyday life
It may sound cruel, but … Romance is fun. And often nothing else. A man sees his wife without makeup, in illness, when she has unwashed hair, when she suffers from stomach flu … The mistress is always in a good mood and she never has a headache.
3. Fear for self-esteem
Even if a wife treats her own husband as a necessary evil, and marriage in fact has long been just a fiction, then it is a man who leaves for another woman who will have the status of a bastard and a traitor. He will probably lose many friends, perhaps part of the family will turn away from him, this may affect his business contacts.
4. Fear of losing money
Divorce is the subsequent alimony and division of property. If a woman is left with children, a man may be deprived of most of his life. It is unlikely that someone wants to earn everything anew, even if he fell in love.
5. Loves stability
Even if the unfaithful husband believes that the passion in the relationship has long faded, he is probably very attached to calm stability. He knows perfectly well the shortcomings of his wife, but he also knows her merits. Even if he doesn't love her anymore, he certainly got used to her.
6. No respect for a mistress
Of course, such a man has no respect for his wife either. If he had it, he wouldn't be cheating on her. However, it cannot be denied that many men simply do not respect their mistresses. They appreciate their beautiful body, youth, but do not feel respect for them and in fact do not plan to get divorced at all.
For a man, the connection on the side does not always have an emotional connection. He can spend time with one lady, and often change partners. The promise to divorce soon means rather the intention to quickly get to the desired body. Only actions speak about real plans and feelings.
