Often couples who have been married for some time realize that a wall of misunderstanding and mutual reproaches has grown between them. When and how it started can be extremely difficult to understand. Spouses feel that they have become distant from each other and either retain their appearance in the family, being deeply unhappy, or they are breaking up. In a family, a woman is the spirit of relationships, so the way out of the confined space largely depends on her.
The root of the problem
There is a lot of talk today about happy and unhappy marriages. Very often at the forefront of family problems are reasons such as the lack of sexual relations, betrayal of the spouse, lack of attention on his part to his wife and children. Popular ways to solve these problems are to turn to fortune-tellers, healers, use a variety of sexual tricks, and sort out relationships. Maybe something works, but only for a while. Or the emerging illusion of happiness entails a train of new, much more intractable problems.
The reason is often on the surface. Modern women are so accustomed to independence and so active that if a man cannot keep up with his wife in the speed of his reactions, he becomes an eternal "whipping boy."
In addition, very often men live with their parents for a long time before entering into a marriage relationship. And the change of status from “child” to “man” occurs only partially and formally.
In the process of family life, many women have a desire to nudge, and sometimes just force, their partner in life to perform this or that action. For the first time, in the second, the spouse fulfills the requirements of the faithful, but then he can simply sabotage the requests. This can be expressed either in an outright refusal to fulfill requests, or in refusing to caress the wife, etc. As a result, tension in the family builds up and leads to the breakup of the couple.
Very often, the root cause is the inconsistency of a man with an ideal invented by a woman. Exactly invented! And this always leads to constant dissatisfaction with his chosen one.
Solving family problems
It is clear that the pace of today's life forces many to do everything quickly and not look back, but it will be advisable for lovely ladies to stop in order not to reach that turning point when people who love each other become not just enemies, but already completely aliens.
It is worth thinking in this situation whether the chosen one has dignity, because the union did not take shape in an instant. If you write them in your notebook, and in the evening meet your husband with a kind smile and a caring word, this will certainly have a result. Of course, the initial effect can be the opposite if a man is used to a tense relationship and has already taken a defensive position, but in such a situation it is important not to deviate from the chosen line and be consistent. Perhaps the spouse will look at his wife who has changed her behavior for some time, she will not melt in the first minute, but the water wears away the stone.
As for criticism, it should be reduced to a minimum and a more convenient time and form should be found in order to voice effective proposals. By the way, they often look as such in the eyes of women, but in practice it turns out that these were hasty ideas.
A caress, whether it be a word or an action, is pleasant not only for lovely ladies, but also for the most brutal representatives of the male half. Not only that, she inspires! Any person, of course, will respond to it, the main thing is not to miss the moment when it will become impossible to turn back the relationship. A man will be happy and will certainly give care and affection in return for his half.
