It is difficult for a modest and indecisive person to take the initiative and come up with the goal of getting to know each other. Even in a city park or cafe, where no one is in a hurry and the atmosphere is conducive to conversation, many people face an insurmountable barrier of fear of being rejected. How to meet in a metropolis ?!
1. In the event that you want to create a couple in the future, you can contact a marriage agency. This method has many advantages and minimum risks, provided that you choose not a young and zealous one-day office that promises princes and princesses, but an inexpensive and already proven agency with a good reputation and extensive experience. The advantages of this method of dating: all candidates are in search and are not married, their appearance matches the stated photographs, they are mentally balanced, have not been convicted and have no selfish goals. In this version of dating, you do not need to waste time on long correspondence, and you will always be given honest feedback on what impression you make on a date. In serious agencies, specialists will work with you, and you can feel more confident, relaxed and comfortable.
2. A dating site is a good option for finding your soul mate. The main disadvantage is that on such sites you can write anything about yourself, but this rarely corresponds to reality: photos of many years ago are posted and the goals of acquaintance are indicated insincerely. Hence the frequent disappointments of those who come with pure intentions.
Women, for the most part, wanting to be liked, are led by the provocations of men and quickly allow the relationship to go horizontal. And men sometimes reason something like this: “To understand, you have to try as soon as possible - what to pull, the choice is huge, the eyes run up. What if there, around the bend, is better. Then comes the understanding: “If she slept with me at the second meeting, then with how many more, because there are a lot of men here… ?!”. As a result, the level of respect for each other on dating sites tends to zero.
3. "Quick Date" parties are a game according to the rules of the event organizers. The one who can sell himself in 5 minutes, in the language of business, "wins" in it. A very dubious victory in the long term relationship, isn't it?
Imagine, in one common room, where 10 small tables stand close to each other, in 50 minutes you have 10 dates. You manage to say: "Hello … Uh …" and a loud gong sounds, it's time to change. All this action takes place in front of other participants and organizers.
Usually the first date is attractive precisely because of its intimacy and targeting - the focus of two people on each other. And here - vanity and confusion. In the case when the skill of light flirting and easy communication is not yet your strong point, at such an event, instead of a new acquaintance, you risk finding a deep sense of disappointment and loneliness.
4. If communication is primary for you, and not the creation of a couple, some interest group is ideal - in Moscow you can always find people consonant with hobbies. There are many sites on the Internet with advertisements for the search for a company for various intellectual (for example, "60 seconds", "Monopoly") or psychological (for example, "Mafia") games, cycling, hiking, traveling around Moscow, etc. There are sites that where people are looking for friends. One has only to type in the search box: "Friends with the same interests in Moscow."
5. Announcements of open (often free) lectures, seminars, excursions, as well as flash mobs and rallies on a variety of topics are published on the Internet. For the most part, lonely people gather there, moreover, of all ages. You can strike up a casual conversation to discuss an urgent issue - is there no reason to meet?
6. The safest way to make friends is to go to courses or enroll in a circle on a topic that interests you (a foreign language, theatrical skill, oratory, dancing, etc.). You get a double benefit: you gain knowledge and new acquaintances. But this option is not the best for those who are looking not so much for friends as for the closest person - their soul mate.
7. In the warm season, it is difficult to find a better place for easy communication than large city parks such as Gorky Park, Kolomenskoye, VDNKh, etc. Over the past couple of years, they have been so modernized that they can rightfully be called a Mecca of cultural recreation in the capital.
The parks host outdoor sports training for everyone, yoga, free dance workshops for all ages, open lessons of the roller school. Outdoor exercise equipment, a running club, race walking - which is just not there. Rent of boats, skates, bicycles, segways, smokats, velomobiles, skateboards, longboards, etc. Areas for playing table tennis, beach volleyball, badminton, towns, football, chess.
Many games and activities involve compulsory communication, moreover, you do not have to take the initiative and invite someone to meet - everything will happen naturally and by itself.
