Family routine, monotony, endless chores - all this can negatively affect the relationship between spouses. Absorbed in household chores, caring for children, a woman herself sometimes does not notice how her world becomes limited by the boundaries of the apartment. One catches himself only when life begins to seem empty and joyless, and only one memory remains of the former ardent love for her husband. And my husband more and more often hints: I once fell in love with not such a woman. In a word, the marriage is on the verge of collapse.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, remember the beginning of your romance. How mutual feeling was born, how it grew stronger, turning into true love, and from the first timid spark a fire of hot passion flared up. Think: after all, you are still the same woman, and your spouse is still the same man. Yes, it is impossible to return the past, but who said that you cannot change the present? Everything is in your hands, you just need to show desire and perseverance.
Step 2
Are you "stuck" by everyday life? Don't have enough time to take care of yourself? This means that you should devote only the most necessary minimum of time to household chores. It is not at all necessary, for example, to clean up from morning to evening; it is quite possible to limit yourself to general cleaning once a week. Remember: you are, first of all, a woman. If you look good, at least your mood and self-esteem will improve. And this is absolutely necessary in order to look at your own husband with "new eyes". And he certainly will not ignore the changes that happened to his wife.
Step 3
Sometimes it is very useful to forget about household chores at least for a while. If there is an opportunity to attach children somewhere (for example, to a grandmother), arrange a joint vacation for yourself with your husband. Go on a trip abroad or on a camping trip as a student. New impressions, acquaintances, beautiful nature - all this will have the most beneficial effect on you. You will immediately feel that family life is not boring at all, and your husband is a very interesting man.
Step 4
If you are by nature a restrained, shy woman, moreover, brought up in a puritanical tradition, then an intimate relationship with your husband is hardly a pleasure for you. And this is a very serious reason for cooling. Overpower yourself, try to shake yourself up, take the initiative. Inspire to yourself: in bed with your beloved, you can behave as you like, there is nothing shameful, inappropriate. Do not hesitate to talk frankly with your husband about this topic, if necessary, read books on sex techniques. The result will not be long in coming!
