When choosing a spouse, women strive to find the perfect man. Of course, when you get married, you want to be protected, to be fenced off from all problems and worries. Therefore, it is worth taking a closer look at the groom even before the wedding, in order to live with the man as if behind a stone wall in the future.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, a man should not have bad habits. Alcoholism and drugs will ruin even an ideal family nest, so you cannot find happiness with such a spouse. In addition, brush aside gambling and lazy men, because you will not see financial stability.
Step 2
A real man is not afraid to take responsibility. She does not scare him, because he is confident in himself and his strength. Relationships with such a man, as a rule, develop at a steady pace. He knows what he wants, so after a short romance he offers to live together and proposes. And then he is responsible for his actions, thoughts, deeds and does not shift difficult questions onto fragile female shoulders.
Step 3
A man who is worth trusting is morally strong, can stand up for himself and his family. You don't have to be an athlete to protect loved ones from bullies. Everyone has their own methods - martial arts, security, law enforcement or negotiation skills. In any case, you should feel safe with your spouse.
Step 4
However, many positive qualities are worth almost nothing if a man is deprived of intelligence. Only a smart man can achieve sufficient financial well-being so that the family does not need anything. He will be able to solve all problems: from minor breakdowns to buying a country house.
Step 5
To live with a man like a stone wall, a woman needs to learn to behave accordingly. A male leader loves to be right, solve problems on his own, take responsibility and take care of his wife. But in return, he wants to receive returns in the form of female care, comfort, understanding and humility. There is no need to argue, bicker, be capricious and throw tantrums out of the blue.
Step 6
Don't criticize the "stone wall". He takes care of all the worries about your life, and he does not need to hear your advice and guidance on how to do something right. You can only mildly express your opinion or offer your help.
Step 7
Don't even think about cheating or flirting with other men. Generally, male leaders will not tolerate betrayal by their women. Therefore, you need to be ready to behave with restraint and adequateness, not to flirt with others and not cause jealousy in your spouse.
Step 8
Let him be better than you, or at least create the illusion that he is. A strong man is used to fighting and competing at work, so when he comes home after a hard day, he wants to rest. There is no need to prove to him that you are capable of earning on a par with him or superior in something else. Develop in female areas where he does not want to compete: embroidery, design, floristry or dancing.
