Young couples cannot always start a life together in their own apartment. Often spouses have to live under the same roof with the relatives of the husband or wife. In this case, intimate life can become incomplete due to the fear that someone will enter the room at the wrong moment. How to protect sexual relations by living in an apartment with relatives?
Deep conspiracy contributes to the acuteness of the sensations during sex, but only on rare occasions, and not on an ongoing basis. If you have to regularly listen to sounds or restrain yourself, you can not only forget about orgasms, but also provoke erectile dysfunction in men. That is why you need to protect yourself from relatives by any means.
Choose a secluded room
If the parents offer the newlyweds the largest room in the apartment (most often this is the living room), it is better to refuse in favor of a small but secluded room. It is imperative to install a lock to ensure that no one enters the room at an inopportune moment for the left glasses (book, magazine, etc.). If the family has small children (yours or other relatives), a lock on the door will help prevent them from getting too early on the sexual side of adult life. Of course, at first there will be attempts to enter the room, despite the presence of a castle, but soon they will get tired of it.
Take care of soundproofing
Many couples are afraid that adult relatives will guess what they are doing in private. Believe me, you won't surprise anyone with sex, but you need to think about soundproofing out of respect for all family members. You can put a wardrobe from floor to ceiling to the adjacent wall, and you can additionally hang a carpet on its back side. If the bed squeaks, you need to think about the fact that it does not belong in the bedroom of the newlyweds and get something more stable and suitable for full-fledged sex. The door to the room may also need soundproofing or replacement.
Don't get lost in a sudden invasion
Even if all precautions are taken, it can happen that at the most crucial moment an uninvited guest will accidentally appear in the room. In no case should you be embarrassed, rush for clothes and apologize. One should feel uncomfortable who, without an invitation, ended up in intimate territory. The best solution is to calmly say that you are busy and want to be alone. This will save everyone from feeling awkward and help to forget about it. If a small child entered the room, there is no need to behave like criminals at the crime scene - calmness and only calmness. The child can leave the room by himself, without even paying attention to what he saw. Or you can tell him that you were just having fun, playing, etc.
Don't forget about other options
Sexual life is not limited to the bedroom, you can have fun in the bathroom, but so that relatives are not deprived of basic amenities for a long time. At least once a month you can afford to rent a room in an inexpensive hotel in order to enjoy each other's company and arrange a romantic dinner ending in bed. If friends ask to look after the apartment during their vacation, you need to use that too. In addition, children can periodically be sent to a children's camp, and parents - to a holiday home.
