Getting pleasure and pleasure from sex is the fundamental reason for having sex. A relaxed and liberated woman is almost guaranteed to reach orgasm. In addition, with her playful behavior, she makes it possible to enjoy the process and a loved one. The problem for some women is stiffness, which prevents them from fully experiencing the full range of sensations from sex. If one of the partners is squeezed, then the second is also doomed to an insufficient amount of emotions and sensations. As a result, sex does not bring the desired satisfaction and can even become a reason for refusing it or finding a lover on the side. This scenario does not suit us, so we will figure out why women are complex in bed, how to become liberated in an intimate life.
The reasons for female stiffness in bed are hidden, as a rule, in the subconscious - at the psychological level. Fighting them will be difficult, but possible.
Why are women trapped in bed, how to fix it?
one.. As soon as a life together begins, a woman wants everything to be of the highest standard. It is by following this desire that sometimes stiffness arises. During foreplay and the sexual intercourse itself, a woman thinks about how she looks at this very moment and in a specific position. Such thoughts are aimed at the desire to please the partner, but they do not always justify themselves. In sex, you need to relax, focus on feelings and desires. Remember: the female body during sex is already desirable, so you need to turn off the head and turn on the senses, completely dissolving in pleasure.
2.. It is more difficult to deal with this situation, since the attitude towards sex as something shameful has been forming for many years. To overcome the problem, you need to look at lovemaking from a different angle. This will help erotic books, manuals, history of sexual culture and videos. You need to learn the most important thing - sex is as natural a phenomenon of family life as cooking dinner or going for groceries. There is no shame in this, but there is a lot to learn. With this mindset, your efforts will pay off.
3.. As a rule, partners like to be the first in something, to serve as a mentor. Do not be afraid to tell your beloved man about your ignorance of something, ask him to show all the subtleties of a certain pose, if we are talking about experiments. If this is something new, promise to obey and behave well - this behavior will turn on your partner, and you will not feel constrained, insecure or stupid, which will help you get incredible pleasure from what is happening in bed.
four.. There are times when feelings have cooled down long ago, and the spouse insists on intimacy. By virtue of duty, a woman obeys, but remains indifferent. In such a situation, something needs to be changed. And the faster the better. You can't be a victim of sex if it's not a role-playing game.
Find the root cause of the problem to overcome stiffness and liberation. Try to work on it, remembering that sex between spouses is needed not only for procreation, but also for your own enjoyment and pleasure. Leave all your thoughts outside the marital bed, try to focus only on the sensations during sex.
