Are you out on a blind date? This is a real adventure. How to prepare yourself for a blind date?
Instructions
Step 1
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. This saying is best for getting the mood right before a blind date. You should not dream that you will meet your hero, count on a decent person, a pleasant interlocutor, otherwise when you meet, not seeing the one you dreamed of, the mood will immediately deteriorate and the date will be hopelessly ruined.
Step 2
The main thing is the right moral attitude. A blind date, an unusual, exciting adventure that you will always remember with a smile. So don't be nervous, relax and have fun. You will meet a completely new, unfamiliar person who can open something interesting for you, make you look at different things in a different way. In the event that you do not like each other, or there is no attraction, the worst that can happen is parting as friends.
Step 3
Be sure to call on the eve of the date. You can arrange a meeting place. The familiar pleasant atmosphere will give you self-confidence. It is also an opportunity to hear the voice, the manner of speaking, we can already say about the culture of communication, it will turn out to form the image of a stranger.
Step 4
If you have the opportunity to choose a place for a date, approach this issue carefully. Perhaps it is better to arrange an active holiday, go rollerblading, ice skating, try to do a joint business. This saves you the hassle of keeping up the conversation all the time, and you can avoid awkward pauses.
Step 5
When, finally, you have met your long-awaited stranger, do not forget to smile and greet at the meeting. You shouldn't make yourself look like you've done a huge favor to the man, he is extremely lucky that you agreed to meet with him. This attitude can ruin the whole event by preventing it from starting. Even if at first glance you didn't like the man, you shouldn't get upset and run away, the first impression is deceiving. In the process of communication, you will realize that you have met an intelligent and charming young man.
Step 6
In the event that you understand for sure that the man is not the hero of your novel, you should not tell him this directly. There is no need to offend a person, because you will not have to see and communicate with him again. Say thanks for a good evening and say goodbye politely.
