Cooney (or cunnilingus) is a form of oral sex in which the partner acts on the external genitals of a woman with his tongue, lips or teeth. This type of sexual caress has been popular in many countries of the world for many centuries and even found its reflection in some famous works of art, for example, in the engraving of the Japanese artist Katsushika Hokusai "The Dream of the Fisherman's Wife", in the painting by Edouard Henri Avril "Cunnilingus", etc. …
Reasons why women may not like cunnilingus
It would seem that such sensual oral sex as Cooney should be liked by all women, without exception, but that was not the case. And the point here is not at all in the frigidity of the lady or the inability to relax and get pleasure. With cunnilingus, as with most other sexual techniques, a lot depends on the degree of the partner's skills. If a man rushes to the female flesh as to an embrasure, wanting to fulfill his duty at all costs, while not listening to his partner, he is unlikely to get flawless cunnilingus in all respects.
In a hurry to give pleasure, literally gnawing into the tender flesh, treating the clitoris as something separate from the woman, a man has every chance to cause terrible mental and physical discomfort to his partner, bordering on the possibility of very real injury.
At the same time, the situation is often aggravated by the fact that a woman, not wanting to offend her partner in any way, reluctantly imitates unearthly pleasure, thereby encouraging the man to new exploits.
In addition to the ineptitude of the partner, the reasons for a sudden negative attitude towards cunnilingus can be: an inappropriate environment, a bad mood or a woman's well-being, a feeling of shyness in front of a partner. There are other factors that cause persistent absolute rejection of this form of oral sex - for example, previous bad sexual experience, puritanical upbringing and the resulting worldview.
Some women may perceive Cooney as a type of caress that is dangerous to their health, in which there is a possibility of contracting any of the sexually transmitted diseases. In fact, such a threat really exists, and if a condom or other protective equipment can come to the rescue during classical intercourse, then in this case, doctors advise using special latex wipes that are applied to the area of influence of the tongue and lips.
Secrets of good cunnilingus
When starting cunnilingus, it is worth assessing the partner's readiness for this type of caresses, as well as the presence (absence) of opportunities for her full relaxation.
If you think that a woman should always want cunnilingus, you have erroneous beliefs.
You can find detailed descriptions of various Cooney techniques on the Internet. Do not be afraid to experiment, try different techniques, while carefully monitoring your partner's reactions, do not forget to ask her what she wants.
When choosing one or another cunnilingus technique, correlate it with the woman's temperament. In any case, act gently and carefully, do not rush. Remember that it all depends on the individual preferences of your partner: one woman will truly enjoy the utmost concentration of your attention on the area of her clitoris, while the other, such obsessive attention to this part of her body, will, on the contrary, be annoying.
Good cunnilingus is one that delights both partners. If you feel that something is wrong, take a break, calmly and frankly talk with the woman, find out about her innermost desires and try to translate them into reality.
