Almost every girl has a girlfriend who always complains about something, about a small salary, naughty children, high prices, bad weather, and so on. A special chapter in the list of women's complaints is occupied by complaints against a husband who does not help at home, earns little, spends a lot of time with friends, and so on. Why do these complaints arise?
In most families, it is so customary that mom constantly scolds dad, for the cause and just like that, out of habit, the grandmother makes claims to the grandfather, the neighbor constantly quarrels with her husband. The girl, seeing such a relationship between adults, clearly forms the scenario according to which her future family life will develop. From childhood, a woman realizes: if you do not scold her man, then the relationship will turn out somehow wrong.
Modern cinema offers a lot of films in which a man is very kind to his woman, takes care of and cherishes in every possible way, presents gifts and so on. Young girls subconsciously expect such an attitude towards themselves. But, unfortunately, this is only found in films. In real life, it is hardly possible to meet such an understanding man. Having modeled for herself an ideal family relationship based on melodrama, the girl, of course, becomes disillusioned with her relationship and begins to slowly train her husband. And if the spouse refuses the chosen behavioral line, he immediately runs to tell her friends about his worthlessness.
Girls who are unhappy with their work, figure, children, relationships in a team, and so on, try to take out the dissatisfaction on their partner, believing that he is the person who should make them happy. A woman will blame all her failures on a personal, household or work path on the wrong man.
Complaints over the phone, posts on social networks, sincere conversations with friends and neighbors are sometimes the only way to shout out to others and hear from them good advice about personal or family life. But hardly any of the strangers will be able to advise something sensible, so all your problems must be solved in a narrow circle of your family.