You can often hear women exclaiming how unlucky they were with their husbands. Sometimes even envy slips through in relation to friends who are doing well. But is this problem really only in men and nothing can be done about it? Most likely not, and any man can be “turned” into an ideal husband.
Any man can be made an ideal husband, but it takes a lot of effort. It seems that all the rules of behavior are elementary, but you can only be convinced of their effectiveness by applying them in practice.
- Don't compare your man to the husbands of your friends. This comparison causes not only negativity in a man, but also jealousy. Yes, he may not do everything as well as others, but he tries. Perhaps the conversations of girlfriends about their ideal men are slightly exaggerated and, in fact, these ideals will turn out to be common.
- Don't constantly criticize the man. If all his actions and desires are criticized, then, in the end, he will get tired of doing something and strive for everything. A woman should be the support of a man. She should not only inspire him to act, but also support sometimes the most fantastic ideas.
- If a man does something, praise him. After all, a kind and affectionate word is one of the highest awards for a loving man. For example, when he cooks a regular lunch, tell him how delicious the food turned out. Call him a super chef and tell him he's done. One should not remain indifferent to his efforts and labors. And then he will be ready to do all the new feats for his beloved.
- Find dignity in your man. Remember why you fell in love with him. Take a closer look at him, maybe he is devoted, maybe romantic, or maybe purposeful. Concentrate precisely on the merits of the person, and then the shortcomings themselves will fade into the background.
- Do not comment on the behavior and actions of your man with your girlfriends. Often, these complaints can reach a man's ears. And then he himself will begin to have complexes. And girlfriends in a relationship are the third superfluous.
A woman should always be the support and support of a man. The keeper of the hearth and home comfort, a woman should bring harmony to the house. And constant pressure, criticism and disrespect from a woman will lead any man to an unwillingness to strive and achieve.
