Anal sex can be a very pleasant experience and diversify your sex life, but for this, both partners must mutually want it, and the sex itself must be preceded by high-quality preparation.
Instructions
Step 1
For girls, anal sex is associated with two fears - fear of possible pain and psychological fear, which can arise for various reasons. Good preparation before sex and a gentle, patient partner will allow you to completely avoid pain, but psychological fears are more difficult to deal with, since they are irrational. In any case, if anal sex is taboo for you, you do not need to break yourself in order to please your partner, nothing good will come of it. Anal sex should be desired by both couples.
Step 2
Perform hygiene procedures before anal sex. Ideally, the girl should do an enema, then there will be no reason for the fear that anal coitus is a dirty business. Also, an enema will be the first step towards relaxing the anus.
Step 3
Set aside sufficient time for foreplay. Porn films give men the wrong attitude, where girls have passionate anal sex spontaneously, without any preparation. In fact, before filming, the actresses are given a whole course of anus relaxation. This means that you cannot be pounced on right away. For everything to go well, you must be very aroused. Particular attention should be paid to caressing the anus, a man can caress him not only with his fingers, but also with his tongue.
Step 4
Take care of the lubrication. This is the most important point in preparation for anal sex, only good lubrication will prevent pain. It is best to use a special lubricant from a pharmacy that is specially formulated for anal sex. But you can use petroleum jelly and various creams. Just remember that greasy lubricants can damage the condom, which must be used for anal sex.
Step 5
For anal intercourse, the correct posture is important, especially the first time. The most painless position is a woman on her side, a man behind. With this position, the penis enters the anus to a shallow depth and an optimal angle for coitus is formed.
Step 6
After the introduction of the penis into the anus, try to control the man, for the first few minutes he should move very, very slowly, but due to the rapidly growing arousal, he may not be able to cope with himself and cause you pain.
