If the relationship reaches a dead end, you don't want to think that this is the end. "Will I really grow cold to this handsome man?" - the girl thinks, going on the next date. How to prevent feelings from disappearing without a trace?
Instructions
Step 1
Realize the reality of your fears. Why did the thought that feelings pass through your mind right now? Do you suspect the guy is cheating or are you just bored around him?
Step 2
If you feel that the man is clearly growing cold towards you, you should not immediately bury the relationship. A period of temporary indifference is normal, every couple goes through this stage. The main mistake in such a situation is to come up with reasons to be together. It is worth doing the opposite - even if the meetings are not frequent, then the attraction will increase.
Step 3
If you are the one who is bored in a couple, just allow yourself it. Do you think guys only like perpetually cheerful beauties? This is not at all the case, if only because sometimes it is useful for lovers to share common sadness and support each other. This experience enriches any relationship.
Step 4
Sometimes the reason for the fear of losing a relationship is jealousy. Does the thought that there are so many lonely beautiful girls around your boyfriend makes your heart squeeze? Just tell yourself that he has already chosen you, and the fact that he pays attention to others only says that he is a sociable person.
Step 5
Jealousy will subside when you stop reinforcing that emotion with action. Stop flinching when his phone rings a text message, give up the temptation to check your ego page in Odnoklassniki. It takes a strong will, but over time you will feel relieved and the fear of losing your boyfriend will ease.
Step 6
Remember that it is impossible to change another person, no matter what they write in women's magazines. Trying to drown out your fear of losing a guy, you should not control his life, especially openly make claims. Let go of your fear and let things take their course. You will soon realize that your fears are completely unfounded.
