It happens that a woman marries an intelligent, handsome and positive man in everything, and after a few years she discovers that her husband does not pay attention, is rude, does not give flowers and no longer meets her requirements. Men also notice changes in their spouses. And they are not always for the better. To maintain a relationship with your loved one and get his attention back, you need to start with yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Home is a place where you can rest and relax. But some women become so relaxed in front of their husbands that they completely stop taking care of themselves. It's not just a lack of makeup, styling, and decent clothing. It is important to monitor both your mood and your communication style. Neglect, rudeness, anger - all this makes the wife extremely unattractive in the eyes of her husband. Of course, it happens that family problems and household chores give up. But you need to make an effort on yourself. Better not to do something around the house than turn into a shrew.
Step 2
If you want your husband to give you compliments and flowers, start admiring him yourself. Take your relationship to the right level. Surely, you won't have to come up with a reason. Just notice the good in your husband more often. And do it out loud. The man will be pleasant and flattering. Praise the delicious dinner he has prepared, mark if he does the promised chores on time.
Step 3
Be honest and sincere with your husband. Don't be fooled by little things, such as the cost of cosmetics or the time spent on the Internet. Do not pull the blanket over yourself - both spouses should establish order in the house, not just you. Put yourself in the shoes of your spouse more often: is it comfortable to be around a person like you? It can be argued that the spouse himself is to blame for your bad mood and attitude towards him. But do not forget that the woman is responsible for the psychological climate in the family, not the man. This happened not because of some rules for the division of household duties, but because of the peculiarities of the female and male energy, their nature.
