You can often notice that after a while, the once warm and sincere relationship between husband and wife turns into a stage of mutual reproaches. This, of course, greatly upsets both, but it seems to wives that it is the husband who should meet halfway and take the first step. However, it is not so difficult for a wife to improve the situation for the better.
To effectively improve your relationship with your own husband? it is necessary to understand that he really needs your support and recognition, namely, he just needs to receive admiration, praise and gratitude from you. So start by doing the following sincerely every day:
1. At least once a day sincerely and deservedly - find why. Even if this is a trifle for you that is not worth attention, for him it can be a real feat or, albeit a small, but necessary step towards changes for the better. Do not stand aside - mark his efforts with attention and praise.
2. At least once a day for what he does personally for you, for the family and / or for the community. So you will show him his importance and necessity, show due respect for his deeds and merits. Whatever he may be, he bears responsibility in the areas of material support of the family, its protection and leadership of the family. Even if your husband earns less than you, he still deserves gratitude for the fact that he goes to work every day, fulfilling his direct responsibilities in relation to the family, while the wife does not have a direct responsibility for the material support of the family.
3. Every day: his strong character, muscular body, good decisions, achievements. This will give him strength and self-confidence.
4. Keep a diary in which you describe your relationship before following these recommendations and continue to describe your relationship in it weekly, noting the changes that are taking place.
5. Every day, note in your diary how many times you expressed praise, gratitude and admiration to your husband - make a separate table for a month so that it is convenient to track the dynamics. Also note his reaction to your actions.
6. After a month, conduct a comparative analysis of the very first and last record of your relationship and draw conclusions about your behavior.
