In any relationship, crises happen sooner or later. If you and your partner have become less likely to communicate, notice in each other more flaws than advantages, often express dissatisfaction, get annoyed, suspect or jealous of each other - then the time has come to improve the relationship. If you do not take action, the situation will worsen, and love is unlikely to be preserved.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to your heart-to-heart partner. Close relationships cannot be built without trusting communication, openness, and sincerity. Tell your loved one about what haunts you, what you would like to change, what you strive for.
Step 2
Ask your partner to tell you their claims and desires. The difficulty lies in the fact that men are sometimes very difficult to bring to such frank conversations. They do not like to talk about feelings and believe that all problems in a relationship should be solved on their own. If you cannot get your partner to talk to you in an ordinary home environment, invite him to a romantic evening in a cafe or restaurant, drink good wine, create a favorable atmosphere for easy heart-to-heart communication. In such a situation, a man cannot escape explanations.
Step 3
Find out the reasons why your relationship has deteriorated. It can be unforgiven grievances, cold feelings, or even betrayal. It is important to understand for yourself whether you really want to make every effort to keep love, whether you are able to understand and forgive each other for everything.
Step 4
From now on, speak up about anything that hurts you right away. It is not necessary to arrange scandals and quarrels over this, but it is still necessary to sort things out. By building up resentment, you are not helping to strengthen the relationship. All unpleasant situations should be voiced. Find a way out of each impasse together.
Step 5
Accept the chosen one with all his flaws. If you suddenly clearly saw all his negative features, then your love has passed. Love is a more realistic feeling, but at the same time stable and strong. Only by accepting all the shortcomings of a man, you can live peacefully with him, and not coexist, relying on your patience.
Step 6
To maintain a relationship, you need to be able to forgive and forget grievances, as well as respect and understand each other's feelings. Nothing destroys trust more than a lie. Do not lie to your partner, and if you notice that he is lying to you, think about whether you can live life with such an insincere person.
Step 7
Spend your free time together, diversify your leisure time. Do what you both love - ice skate, cycle, go to the pool, go for a walk, spend weekends outside the city. It is helpful to make common family friends so that you can have fun in their company.
