In every quarrel, we try to defend our point of view, prove our innocence, but on the other hand, of course, we want to come to mutual understanding and love. How to avoid a quarrel and how to behave? Read more …
Often in the relationship between a guy and a girl, husband or wife, quarrels occur. The usual very minor quarrels, due to which people either break up or get divorced. Why are we afraid to look at our partner with different eyes? What is stopping us? What pushes us into a quarrel with a loved one? And how can this be avoided? In this article I will try to answer these questions and talk about the ideal relationship in a couple.
First, I'll tell you about what prompted me to write an article on this topic. Everything is very simple. I, too, have been fighting with my boyfriend for a long time. And from my own experience I know that men will never change and that we will never be able to prove anything to them, but will only waste our own nerves and precious time. And even if you were able to convince your partner of something, then believe me, in any case, everyone will remain with their opinion and will think that he or she is right.
To begin with, being in a quarrel, some people immediately resort to extreme measures: break up or get divorced. I think this is wrong. Relationships are built on trust and understanding, on patience, on the ability to understand and learn to listen to your half. As it turned out, this is not so difficult to do. I want to give you some tips that you can easily use:
1) Try to simply keep quiet in a quarrel with your partner, or at least do not try to argue or over-shout. Believe me, this is unpleasant. Try to understand your boyfriend or girlfriend, "get into his (her) position. Join hands, calm down and calm your loved one (s). This way you show how much you love and appreciate each other."
2) Think about how many good and happy moments you've had together. Try to talk about it, remember it together. Sit down and watch your favorite movie you might have seen when you first met.
3) Love yourself and your flaws, and then fall in love with the flaws of your loved one. After all, you must agree, no matter how bad he was, there is something in him that hooked you, what you fell in love with.
4) During a quarrel, sharply kiss your partner passionately, ask for forgiveness in your ear, loudly confess your love, pick it up or hug it tightly. Surprise is important at the moment of a quarrel, and even more so a pleasant surprise. Just don't spoil anything!
You can give a bunch of ways of what needs to be done in order to make peace, to avoid a quarrel. We are all different and everyone chooses what to do. But if you really value, love and respect your soul mate, you want him (s) to be happy, then you will learn to understand each other, spend a lot of time together (outside the house and in a familiar environment), spend time more often where the two of you felt good, do not be afraid to voice your ideas or suggestions. Talk to each other, hug, hold hands, kiss - life is one. Why waste it on fights?
