The behavior of children can sometimes throw even the calmest adult off balance. From these sweet, pure souls, we can lose control of ourselves. Why does a child stop listening to his parents as he gets older? How to deal with disobedience, unknowingly spoken bad words?
If a child snaps, says rude words, then it is worth trying to explain to him clearly and distinctly why such words cannot be said. In no case should you grab onto the belt. After all, young children most often do not realize what they are saying, do not understand what is good and what is bad. Children are like sponges, they absorb both positive and negative information.
If a child asks you to buy something for him, and you refused, then this can develop into unconscious aggression. You should not immediately shout at the baby and say that he did not deserve this purchase. It is worth trying to calm him down. Stroking your head will help you achieve a positive effect. Tell your child that you don't have enough money to buy something right now. Or arrange in advance with the baby that the store will buy him only one candy or toy and no more. Children are smart enough and can understand a lot if you talk to them in a quiet, calm atmosphere, without shouting and without a categorical prohibition.
What if the child gives change or fights? Many kids, with their unique personality, can be unpredictable. And often a modern child does not realize that fighting is not good. Therefore, this is one of his ways of expressing his discontent. It is necessary to try to explain why this should not be done. For better assimilation of information, the child needs to be shown a cartoon or tell a story related to bad boys who fight. A fairy tale or cartoon should be in an instructive form. Most likely, the kid will not have to explain for a long time why it is bad, why it is not.
These tips will help parents to deal with their child correctly in a particular situation. It is, of course, easier to hit the child, but this will not solve the problem, but will only postpone it for a while and everything will start all over again. Therefore, it is worth considering before using assault. Each blow carries a psychological trauma for the child, and this trauma remains with him for the rest of his life.
