Unfortunately, it is not so rare that we have to deal with outright rudeness in life. No matter how well-mannered, intelligent and peaceful person you are, sometimes you cannot simply ignore the boor or keep silent to him in response. Whether you like it or not, fighting back with words is often the best and most effective way. Your task is not to drop your dignity and make it so that someone who does not know how to behave becomes ashamed.
Instructions
Step 1
Be ready to answer a boor any minute. To do this, you can come up with a few standard phrases that can make the brawler feel uncomfortable, since they will attract unhealthy interest in his person. For example, you can say: "The fact that your life is hard to see with the naked eye, but why are you venting your anger on me?" or "It's noticeable that women don't like you, but I just need help from you."
Step 2
You can besiege a screamer by showing him ostentatious participation: "Are you yelling like that because you have hearing problems?" or "When you shout like that, your eyes turn red, you will take care of yourself, otherwise you will tear yourself up." It becomes clear to your interlocutor that they are joking and mocking him, that he did not scare anyone with his shout and just looks stupid.
Step 3
If you come to work with a new hairstyle or handbag and you know that this may cause unfounded criticism of one of your colleagues, then simply tell her in response: "I knew that you would like it, you just do not know how to hide envy, you need to learn this." …
Step 4
It is more difficult if the boss allows himself to be rude. Behave with dignity. You can say, “Sorry, I'll leave you now. Call me when we can continue the conversation and we will analyze where I was wrong and where I made a mistake."
Step 5
Never go into raised tones and do not start talking to a boor in his language. Often, he is just waiting for this - after all, such a language is close and understandable to him, in such conditions of conversation he feels like a fish in water and only expects a similar reaction from you. This tone of conversation brings the conversation to the level of market swearing, and this does not paint you at all.
