Communication with girls is a natural need of the opposite sex. But you need to be ready for dialogue on a subconscious level, changing your own internal attitudes and attitude towards communication. You need to tune yourself into the fact that talking with girls is pleasant for you and her.
To start a conversation with a girl, you need to interest her.
It's actually not difficult to start a conversation with a girl: just ask her with a request or a question. It is much more difficult to make sure that the dialogue is not limited to two empty phrases, but is continued. To do this, you need to interest the girl you like. How to do it?
A novelty effect, a non-standard approach is needed so that a representative of the opposite sex expresses a desire to continue acquaintance. To the standard phrases "How to get there?" better not to resort. Much more interesting will sound: “Happy holiday to you! With which? Yes, today is a day of great mood!"
It's no secret that men with a good sense of humor have a liking for themselves. After all, the main goal is to make the girl smile or some other positive reaction. Non-standard phrases can confuse a girl for a few seconds. This is a normal reaction, but it is important for a young person to avoid long pauses.
The first answer is followed by a second question. It is desirable that it be appropriate. When you are near a cafe, you can ask what kind of coffee a new acquaintance likes, in what place in the city it is prepared? The subsequent coffee invitation would seem logical.
So that the conversation does not resemble an interrogation, the questions should be witty, diluted with jokes. Then the dialogue will flow naturally and easily.
They are greeted by their clothes …
This is what popular wisdom says. You can start a conversation with a girl under any pretext. But the first thing that she will appreciate is the appearance of a potential acquaintance. Stylish, neat, radiating energy and positive men always arouse keen interest of the opposite sex.
When tying an acquaintance, you need to keep your shoulders straight with your hands out of your pockets. Smoking is also not advisable. Glitter in the eyes, a smile on the face, a direct open gaze arouse female interest.
How to behave during a conversation
Psychologists believe that it is better to approach the girl from the left side. You should never block her path, catch up with a run: there is a possibility that she will mistake you for a maniac. You should contact only when the fairer sex notices the young man.
It must be remembered that a new acquaintance is closely monitoring your reaction. But you don't need to stand at attention. Change the position of your legs, gesticulate with your hands in time to the girl. Blind copying of her gestures can be misinterpreted as clowning. But the reciprocal movements will look natural.
If the girl smiles, willingly answers questions, then contact has been established. Do not forget about compliments, though not frequent. Otherwise, your friend will see you as a flatterer.
