What young people do not do to get the phone number of the girl they like. And then what? You hold in your hands a piece of paper with numbers and painfully figure out where to start a telephone conversation. You like her, but you are afraid of failure. What should I say to the girl?
Instructions
Step 1
Keep it simple. You can just dial the phone number and ask how she's doing. Ask how the day is going, show concern and concern. If you are not a supporter of chatting on the phone, invite her to a meeting. To do this, keep in mind in advance the options where you can spend time together.
Step 2
Come up with an excuse to call. It doesn't have to be complicated or serious. Just ask her for advice on how to prepare a meal or pairing shirt and jeans colors. So the conversation will start.
Step 3
Think about what you would like to know about the girl. Ask about her hobbies and interests, what movies and music she likes. Ask questions to get to know each other better. Remember that the conversation should not turn into an interrogation. Alternate questions with fun, informal stories about yourself and your hobbies. Perhaps the girl is interested in philosophical reasoning from the series "Is there life on Mars?" Give her some interesting ideas about this.
Step 4
There are also recommendations on what not to do. Avoid swear words, rudeness, sensitive topics. Do not be too frank and persistent if the girl, for some reason, decided not to answer the question. You should also not find out her financial situation or discuss with her her friends or other women. Do not tell about yourself that which does not exist. If you want to chat with a girl. Keep it simple and talk more about neutral topics.
Step 5
If you are very anxious, jot down a small three to four point conversation plan on paper. When pauses begin to appear in the conversation, direct the conversation in a new direction.
Step 6
After finding out the interests of the girl, offer what she is interested in. If she loves to walk, invite her to go boating on the lake. If you love ice cream and popcorn, go to the cinema together. If the girl loves history and culture, invite her to see the recently opened exhibition.
