Finding out that a loved one is cheating on you means experiencing a deep emotional shock. In the first minutes after such a discovery, as a rule, there is a shock. Many unanswered questions are spinning in the head of the deceived woman (how is this possible, why this happened to me, etc.). But after a short period of time, rationalism prevails over emotions, and she has to solve a practical problem: what to do next.
When choosing the right decision, it should be remembered that for many men a fleeting affair is a banal desire to add variety to their sex life, it is a kind of doping to support harmonious family relationships. Therefore, you should think about parting only if you equate physical betrayal with spiritual. Therefore, no matter how regrettable it may sound, you will have to part with the person who betrayed you (primarily for your own mental comfort). Of course, at first it will not be easy for you: modern psychologists argue that a person can finally recover from mental wounds only after half the period during which he had a relationship. That is, for example, if you lived with your husband for a year, then you will need at least 6 months to restore mental comfort … If you think that you are able to stop your husband's spree, before taking any action, carefully prepare … Think over your behavior and phrases that you address the windy traitor, and scroll through the various options of your dialogue in your mind. In this case, one should proceed from the psychological type to which your spouse belongs. Swearing with a strong spirit is not worth it - it would be more correct to put on the mask of an unfortunate victim and even cry a little. If your husband is by nature gentle enough and you are the leader in your marital relationship, then you can arrange for him to be “harassed”. Thus, information reaches this type of people faster. If you value family relationships, you can remain silent about what you know, especially if your spouse's behavior towards you has not changed (he is still "white and fluffy") … But if you yourself have long been looking for an excuse to break your family ties with maximum benefit, then there was no better scenario for the development of events. Behave as if nothing had happened, slowly collecting evidence of his betrayal. Thanks to the evidence obtained, you will have every chance to sue part of the fortune from your husband, since you will act as a victim and the judge will be 95% on your side.
