Sometimes in a girl's life there is a choice between a relationship with her husband and her lover. It can be very difficult to give preference to one person, but you still have to do it.
Why you shouldn't leave your husband for a lover
If you are faced with a choice between a spouse with whom you have been married for a long time, and a lover, you need to weigh the pros and cons before making any decision.
Take a close look at both men from the side. Compare not only their appearance, which will not play any role in your joint existence, but also the character of the stronger sex. You must choose for yourself such a life partner who will never betray or deceive you, who will be a reliable support and support in all your problems, difficulties and undertakings. Your man should be strong and courageous, hardy and resilient, and also caring. Also, do not forget that if you do not have children now, they will appear in the future.
Leaving your legal spouse for the sake of a lover is sometimes stupid, since a husband is a person with whom you have come a long way hand in hand, coped with many difficulties and obstacles. You have almost memorized all his habits, you know how he will behave in a given situation. And your spouse can probably guess at any moment what you need for complete happiness.
Your love for your lover can cool off as quickly as it broke out, so if you are not one hundred percent sure of the sincerity of your feelings, it is better not to jump to conclusions and leave everything as it is.
Why you need to leave your husband and go to your lover
The relationship of the second half in a legal or civil marriage is not always ideal. Sometimes women live with their husbands, who do not take care of them properly, have intrigues on the side, have no life goals and think only of themselves. In addition, a man may suffer from some bad habits that he does not want to fight.
If your legal spouse is a notorious egoist, unable to provide you with an ideal future, and your lover is a promising young man who truly loves you, tries to please you and provide you with any support, you can safely give preference to the second representative of the stronger sex and enjoy new relationships.
Just remember that if you are faced with a difficult choice between two men, it is better not to fool them, but honestly admit that a rival has appeared and that you cannot yet decide on your feelings. Any lie will sooner or later come true, therefore, hiding the truth, you can lose your love.
