Circumstances that raise doubts about the sincerity of a spouse's feelings happen to almost every woman. Some begin to notice that his eyes burn at the sight of a neighbor, others analyze late returns or excessive concern for his image.
Oh, these suspicions …
A girl who is married is probably suspicious of her husband's sudden desire to endlessly change shirts, shave and smell of cologne. However, all these body movements of the spouse do not yet speak of betrayal or the appearance of a rival. Although the crept in doubts about his decency are already beginning to corrode consciousness …
Thoughts of treason give rise to a desire to follow the beloved husband. However, suspicions are far from always confirmed, but the worm of mistrust and the feeling that you are being betrayed is the most destructive in the relationship of lovers and loved ones. Talking on the phone in another room does not mean the appearance of a mistress, they can be caused by problems at work or even preparing some kind of surprise for a jealous wife.
Many of the women are tormented by suspicions and think that it would be worthwhile to establish surveillance of the faithful. Whether it is necessary to follow the husband, each wife decides for herself, but we can say that if you have chosen the path of surveillance, the ending will be disastrous in any case. This will happen for one simple reason: trust is lost and the feeling of love, most likely, too. Few can forgive being suspected of something they did not do.
After checking loyalty, only a few married couples manage to maintain a relationship, and the bitter residue of disappointment in a loved one will still remain.
Do I need to monitor my spouse?
If you think about whether it is worth following your husband, you can say that it is worth it. But this should be done only if there is an intention to divorce for the benefit of oneself or to lose a kind and light attitude towards oneself. Isn't it easier to share your doubts and ask your loved one what's going on? The answer to your question will dot the I's. No man will lie if he does not want to save his family and his wife's love. While the husband denies everything, he values you and your relationship, even if he played pranks on the side.
Real men do not drag their affairs into the house on the side, they take care of children, their beloved wife and their reputation as an exemplary family man.
Self-confidence is an essential feature of every happy woman. She needs to take care of her husband, children and most importantly, no matter how trite it may sound - to take care of herself, and not every step of her husband.
It is always much easier to destroy something than to create it. The same happens in the relationship between a woman and a man. Think, what if you are being followed? Maybe your actions and behavior raise doubts in the head of your beloved? Treat him the way you would like him to treat you. The basis of a close-knit and strong family is love and trust, tenderness and respect, not suspicion and surveillance.
