When a woman has to be torn between two men, sooner or later a difficult moment of choice comes. On the one hand, she is used to her husband, and she is sorry to injure him, on the other hand, her new lover is caring so beautifully that it is impossible to resist. To make the right decision, you need to consider the situation from all sides.
Instructions
Step 1
Take it for granted that it is not infinitely impossible to lead a double life. Do not build illusions about men: sooner or later the husband will find out about his lover, it is better to confess. You will have to sort out this situation anyway. Make it turn in your favor.
Step 2
Decide for yourself what you value most in a relationship. A new man is always attractive, but is he good for a long-term relationship? The flame of passion will gradually fade away, are you ready to create a new family, in which there will be not only joys, but also problems?
Step 3
Understand what your lover won you over. Perhaps you fell into his arms because you are tired of the routine of family life. But crises happen even in the most prosperous families. Should you trade the comfort of your home for the dubious pleasures of a secret relationship?
Step 4
Think about what keeps you close to your husband. Maybe just a habit. Love is gone, the relationship has frankly deteriorated, are you tired of pulling the whole burden of family problems? Tell your life partner about this. If you are dear to him, he simply will not allow you to be unhappy. And maybe it will keep you from leaving the family.
Step 5
If you have children, consider their interests. Perhaps your husband is naturally child-loving, but not all men are endowed with such qualities. Ask your beloved if he is ready to take care of your children. This question will also help clarify his intentions in your relationship.
Step 6
Consider the material side of the issue. Divorce on top of everything else can put you in a difficult financial situation, consider this scenario. A lover who is generous with gifts is far from always delighted with the fact that a woman is completely on his content.
Step 7
And yet the best advisor in such a delicate choice is love. This feeling is difficult to confuse with something else. The best move is to stay with the man you truly love. Follow the dictates of your heart, then not a single difficult question will baffle you.
