Sometimes, even in the most prosperous family, disagreements occur. Yesterday the couple could not live a day without each other, and today they barely talk. Others also suffer from their quarrels. How can we return peace and quiet to the family?
Instructions
Step 1
Think carefully before embarking on a truce process. After all, the reason for the disagreement can be quite serious, when the intervention of outsiders, even a delicate one, threatens with moral injury to all participants in the process. Becoming a peacemaker makes sense if you know the couple well enough.
Step 2
To reconcile spouses, you have to resort to innocent tricks, but direct tactics, expressed in persuasion and exhortations under the slogan "Make peace and do not fight again," most often leads to the opposite results. Be delicate, especially if the reason for the quarrel is related to cheating.
Step 3
Enlist the support of mutual acquaintances who also hate cooling in what was once the hottest couple in the company. In the strictest confidence, create an initiative peacekeeping group, share ideas. Practice shows that the collective mind is able to offer the most non-trivial ways to solve a problem.
Step 4
Use the method from Hollywood movies. Organize a party for the spouses without giving any advance notice. Invite them separately, letting them know that something big is up. The program of the evening should be thought out, focus on games, dances, competitions in which everyone participates. A fun, relaxed atmosphere can bring a once passionate couple together again.
Step 5
Show the spouses a movie about their life. Collect photos and videos of the couple in their happiest moments. Create an original collage, edit a short film, dub it with funny music or the voiceover of mutual acquaintances who praise the couple in every way.
Step 6
Have a heart-to-heart talk with one of the couple. Avoiding direct questions, offer your support. Perhaps the wife has long been in need of advice, but she simply has no one to share her experiences with. Support her, tell her that everyone has a falling out, and a strong family is rare, is it worth letting adversity darken a happy union? Let them know that you love both of them and that you simply cannot imagine them apart. Be sure they will listen to you.
