Every woman who marries, especially for great and strong love, sincerely believes and hopes: her husband will love her alone! And the thought of treason would not even occur to him. Alas, reality is sometimes far from these rosy dreams. Many wives suddenly find out that their husbands are unfaithful to them. And they are faced with a difficult question: what to do next? Divorce or keep a family?
Instructions
Step 1
Each deceived wife decides this issue in her own way, depending on many circumstances: the depth and sincerity of feelings for her husband, character, temperament, inculcated norms and foundations (including religious ones), financial situation, the presence and age of children, etc. … In most cases, she forgives her husband. But what should you do? How to believe your husband again after?
Step 2
Remember the words of the great sage Confucius: "A strong and intelligent person blames himself for his problems and failures, the weak and stupid - others." It is so easy to shift the blame for her husband's betrayal to the insidious "seductress"! It is much harder and more painful to admit: if the husband is carried away by the "seductress", if he found something in her that you cannot boast of, you yourself are to blame for this, first of all.
Step 3
If you cannot restore trust in a relationship, keep repeating to yourself: "Since I suspect my husband of treason, it means that I subconsciously sign my own failure, my inability to be the most beloved, most desirable and attractive for him!" But once your husband loved you alone. Once upon a time there were no other women for him. Return the love and passion of a man in your power.
Step 4
Do not feel sorry for yourself and do not put forward the following arguments: "We used to be younger and more beautiful, but now, after the birth of children, after all these household chores, where can we compete in attractiveness with young ladies!" Cast aside such thoughts, because these are, to put it mildly, weak arguments. First, you must take care of yourself in any case and maintain your beauty and feminine attractiveness. Secondly, for many men, the wife's kind disposition, comfortable, cozy atmosphere in the house, created by her, is much more valuable than external data.
Step 5
Firmly remember that the more willingly the husband returns home, the less chances that he will be “pulled to the side”. Therefore, you need to make every effort to make the house truly warm, cozy and friendly for your husband. Then thoughts about possible betrayal will cease to occur to you, and trust in your husband will return.
