Some women are surprised that they just can't find a gentleman and get married. The reason for this may be ignorance of how to behave in a male society and to interest the stronger sex.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine the type of men you like the most. Write down what qualities your future husband should have, also imagine his appearance, which attracts you the most. Ignorance of these parameters is often confusing when looking for a suitable man.
Step 2
Do not dwell on the fact that you need to get married by all means. Such girls are immediately noticed by the "seeking" or compassionate look. They "cling" to the first young man they meet, who is at least a little sympathetic to them. Men do not like the persistence of their companion, they are not always ready for such a rapid development of relations. In addition, some begin to use the girl who dreams of marriage for selfish purposes.
Step 3
Feel free to meet and communicate with men of the type that suits you. If you look after your appearance, observe good manners and dress tastefully, you will begin to be noticed by representatives of the stronger sex. Do not push away the courtship of men and reciprocate if you feel sympathy for someone.
Step 4
Build the right relationship with your man. Don't be too approachable and don't be in a rush to show off your dignity through your bed. An important and defining parameter of the desire to start a family is mutual love. Become a support for your man, support him in everything, prove yourself as a worthy contender for the role of wife.
Step 5
Consider a common law marriage if the man loves you but is not ready to get married. Currently, a fairly large number of couples live in this way. Over time, both of you will understand that you can no longer live without each other, and then you will want to legitimize the relationship. Often, when a man and a woman have been together for a long time, they begin to think about children, and this is another reason to tie the knot.