On the first date, the girl must show her best side and make it clear to the gentleman that he is dealing with a serious and decent person.
Instructions
Step 1
To avoid harassment and to prevent a man's wrong thoughts, first of all, pay attention to your appearance. If you came to your first date in a short mini, transparent sweater, through which a leopard bodice is visible, or chose to wear a dress with an indecently deep neckline, do not expect any other reaction from a man. He will appreciate such a frank appearance as a hint, permission to act. The girl should look dignified, you should not hide behind the baggy clothes of a nun, enough light feminine outfits that emphasize your femininity, and leave room for male imagination.
Step 2
Watch your behavior, excessive flirting, obsessive touching, this is a signal for a man. A girl should be modest, but sociable, a mystery should be felt in her. You should not flaunt all your desires, or just tease a man in the hope of catching him.
Step 3
They don't kiss on the first date. This rule remains relevant to this day if you, meeting a man, felt incredible sympathy for him and expect a serious relationship with him. You must immediately position yourself correctly. Let the man know that you are only in a serious relationship and excessive expressions of affection on the first date are irrelevant. Let the man pursue you, earn your favor.
Step 4
If, after several attempts at harassment and your unequivocal refusals, the man came to his senses and retreated, perhaps not all is lost. Men easily tolerate such refusals, and soon make new attempts. If you really like a man, do not refuse, but also do not give unambiguous answers. Let him know that his spell has worked on you, but you are not ready to rush into his arms right now. The role of a one night stand is not for you. The main thing is to make him feel like a winner, but he may receive a prize a little later.
Step 5
If a man does not calm down and continues his attempts to seduce you, offering to continue the evening with him, then perhaps you were mistaken in him and his intentions are not the best. You should not give in to such men, because of the fear of eternal loneliness, or in the hope that a man will irrevocably fall in love with you after a night spent. Do not waste your time on it, perhaps tomorrow you will meet your soul mate.
