For proper development, a child needs two important things. On the one hand, in care and love. On the other hand, in discipline and understanding of the clear boundaries of what is permitted. Only mom and dad can give a baby these skills. In incomplete families in which the child does not have a father, the responsibility for solving this problem falls entirely on the shoulders of the woman. It is especially difficult for mothers of boys. In order to raise a son without a father, a woman herself needs to behave herself correctly.
Instructions
Step 1
In order to give their baby all the best: tasty and healthy food, beautiful clothes, interesting toys, women raising their children without a husband are looking for options for additional income in their free time from their main work. Naturally, due to such constant workload, it is simply impossible to devote a lot of time to your son, to walk with him and arrange joint entertainment. As a result, the child is left alone with his thoughts, feelings and emotions. This must not be allowed. Try, in spite of all your deeds, to devote maximum time to your baby. Talk to your son more often about your love for him, take an interest in his affairs.
Step 2
Very often, a mother who is raising her son alone has a desire to pamper her baby and allow him a little more than necessary. Thus, the woman seeks to compensate for the absence of the father in the boy's life. As a result of such behavior of the mother, the child can turn into a real little tyrant with a clear conviction that everything is permissible for him. Therefore, despite all your love and pity for your son, set strict rules for him that must be followed.
Step 3
A boy, especially one who grows up without a father, needs a masculine image. Therefore, be sure to organize communication between your son and your grandfather, uncle, your friend or neighbor. In general, it is desirable that there be as many men as possible around the boy, in whom he can observe such masculine qualities as responsibility, respect for a woman, strength, empathy. If any of the famous people is an idol for your baby, be sure to support his authority by sharing with your son the enthusiastic emotions associated with the famous person.
Step 4
Never say anything bad about his dad in front of your son. After all, the father is part of the boy, and according to your unflattering comments about the ex-husband, the bad part of him. Such a conclusion of the baby can lead to problems with self-identification and the development of certain personality complexes.
Step 5
And most importantly, understand and accept the fact that your son will soon grow up. Do not forbid him to get new experience, do not protect him from mistakes. Give the boy the right to choose and be sure to listen to his opinion, even if it is wrong.
