In the upbringing of sons, men play an irreplaceable role. No matter why your son doesn't have a dad, he needs a father. You also need a man. When choosing a gentleman, first of all think about whether he is suitable for the role of a father for your child.
Instructions
Step 1
Take a closer look at your surroundings. Perhaps your future life partner, who will become a good father for your son, is next to you. You may not be familiar with him, but you have mutual friends. Let your friends and acquaintances think if they have in mind the right man to meet your family. If meeting your spouse through friends is not your case, determine what other options might work for you. Successful acquaintance with subsequent serious relationships over the Internet is rare. But you can try your luck on a dating site. You can get to know a man in ordinary life conditions. Visit places where you can meet a person of the right warehouse. These can be interest clubs, thematic events, exhibitions. If you have neither the strength nor the desire to look for a man yourself, you can use the services of a matchmaker. Choose a reliable woman or a reputable dating service.
Step 2
When choosing a new boyfriend, be guided not only by personal sympathy, but also by the interests of the child. A man should suit both of you. In your case, finding a life partner is twice as difficult as for a woman without children, but there is no need to despair. Of course, a man should know about your son and not be against children. Introduce them and see if they can find a common language, and if the man wants to look for an approach to your son. If your child is still young, he will quickly get used to the new dad. An older son may not immediately accept a new man in the house.
Step 3
Increase the time of the threesome gradually. Go together for a picnic, an amusement park, a children's play, or a concert. Invite your new friend to visit you, let, while, for example, you are preparing dinner, he will worship your baby or watch a cartoon with him. If you have the right man next to you: kind, loving children and tuned in to a serious relationship, he and your son will be drawn to each other. In the future, you can have a friendly and happy family.
