When people are lost, you need to act immediately, because in such cases every minute is precious. If a person has disappeared for a long time, you need to use other methods. If a person disappeared, creating a new family and leaving old memories, then it is enough just to write him a letter.
Instructions
Step 1
In your search methods, you need to build on the situation in which you find yourself. It is she who will dictate where to look for, how to look, who to connect to these searches, what information to prepare in advance. After all, how many people, so many problems, so many incidents, so many situations. You can give some advice here, but you still have to think with your own head and rationalize your own searches.
Step 2
Use the internet. Fortunately, now the world wide web is more than well developed. Start with the most elementary search engines, connect social networks to your searches (and in them now, if not the majority, then at least most of the people "freeze"), go to special sites. But when working with Internet resources, you need to take into account two points: firstly, you must already have some information about the person you are looking for (in this case, about your father), and secondly, do not get too carried away with these most social networks, since your ultimate goal is to go "into real life" and find a father in real life.
Step 3
Try your luck on television. It's no secret that there are special programs that search for people. Of course, in this case, too, you need to provide a certain amount of information that will be used by TV people. But on the other hand, their search methods are much more effective than if you yourself were looking for a father, and your story will gain popularity. If you are afraid of this very fame or want to keep the details of the story secret, then choose other paths.
Step 4
Refer to private detectives. In most cases, they guarantee complete confidentiality of the information they receive from you and the information they find out in the process. In addition, you pay them money, and they are obliged to provide their services in the best possible way so that you, as a client, do not have any complaints. On the other hand, their services will probably cost you a pretty penny, but what can't you do to find your own dad?
Step 5
Think with your head based on your own situation. If you have the coordinates of your father, but you are simply afraid or embarrassed to approach him personally, then you do not need to resort to someone else's services. You yourself will have to overcome yourself and step over your own fears. Of course, if your family is against such a step, then you probably shouldn't step over their feelings either. But if there are no such obstacles and you are determined to find your father, then be brave, tactful and humane. The past is often unworthy to shatter the present and the future because of it.
