A child is not always raised by his biological parents. Many children grow up in foster homes. And often, matured adopted children develop an interest in the personalities of their biological father and mother. Such a desire is not surprising: I still want to know who gave birth to a person and why left him? This is of great importance for the further self-identification of a person, acceptance of his past and the search for blood relatives.
It is necessary
- - the consent of the adoptive parents to disclose the secret of adoption;
- - contacting the registry office;
- - going to court.
Instructions
Step 1
In order to start looking for your biological parents, you need to have the written consent of the adoptive parents, since the secret of adoption has not yet been canceled. If the adoptive parents are dead, the court gives permission to disclose the information.
Step 2
Having received the necessary permission, contact the civil registry office (REGISTRY OFFICE), where all information regarding the birth of a person and his biological parents is stored.
Step 3
If he refuses to give you the necessary information, referring to the secret of adoption, appeal his actions in court. To do this, you need to have a written motivated explanation of the registry office, which he must issue at your request within a month.
Step 4
Also, try to find your parents through the Wait for Me program, contact the program staff and submit your ad. For this, it is advisable to find out as much information as possible about the maternity hospital where you were born, your biological parents, etc.
Step 5
In addition to a request to the registry office, you have the right to contact the maternity hospital where you were born, or the archive of the court that gave permission for your adoption or adoption, as well as the guardianship and guardianship authority or the regional databank of children left without parental care.
Step 6
Keep in mind that the registry office and other government agencies are only required to tell you the names of your parents, you will have to look for their current place of residence yourself. This can be done with the help of detective agencies, although they are reluctant to take on such cases: they have to invade the privacy of citizens too much, which is contrary to the legislation on private detective activity.
Step 7
If you are lucky enough to find your parents, do not immediately declare that you are their son or daughter. Get to know them first as an outsider - social welfare worker, etc. It is possible that your biological parents will not be happy with the meeting with a once abandoned child, and they will not make contact, and this will cause you great psychological trauma.