Cheating is an ordeal for a woman. How to behave in this situation? Should I forgive my husband or start a new life?
First you need to calm down and not throw tantrums. The situation cannot be changed. You need to understand what you want next - to keep your family or divorce.
If you decide to keep the family, then you do not need to remind your husband of adultery at every opportunity. This will once again upset you, and the husband will get tired of it, and he will decide to leave you.
Think about what prompted your husband to cheat. Perhaps you yourself contributed to this? Remember how you were when you met. Have you changed a lot since that time? Maybe he lacked care and understanding, and he went to look for her on the side.
Are you all right sexually? Do you have headaches too often? Diversify your sex life. Read the literature from this area and forward to seducing your man.
Do not share your problem with your friend, and even more so with your mom. They will not be able to correctly assess the situation. Here you are the best advisor. No one but you can make the right decision.
Don't turn kids against dad. For them, he remains the same loving daddy, and discord in the family will cause them psychological trauma.
And what you should definitely not do is sort things out with your rival. Be above that!
If you do decide to file for divorce, think again. To cock all the pros and cons. It is easy to destroy a family, but much more difficult to maintain. Think how much happiness comes from a family where children have a loving mom and dad. This is the main reason to keep the family together.
