You have been living with your husband for several years, and now, finally, the long-awaited pregnancy has come. But suddenly at the same time you find out that your husband has cheated on you. What to do, how to behave further?
Instructions
Step 1
Many in despair make the biggest mistake - go to the clinic and immediately have an abortion. In no case do not get rid of the unborn child. Find the strength to sit down and think it over calmly.
Step 2
If your husband himself told you about the betrayal, you should not sob and bang your head against the wall. By doing this, you will harm your health and the new life that is emerging in you. Invite your husband to calmly discuss the situation. Find out what he intends to do next. Will he continue to continue his relationship with his mistress and, perhaps, is going to go to her, or will he admit that it was a fleeting relationship that he wants to forget about as soon as possible.
Step 3
If he asks you for forgiveness for what happened and wants to save the family, think - you should not categorically say "no." After all, your unborn child needs a full-fledged family. Perhaps there is a little bit of your fault in what happened. You are now busy with the changes taking place in your body, you often feel bad, you get tired quickly, you began to pay less attention to your husband. So he found a temporary replacement on the side.
Step 4
Be honest with him about how you felt after learning about his betrayal. This will help you get rid of stress, and also show him that you are very worried, because you care about him. At the same time, do not beg him to stay, do not beg. Don't be humiliated. It looks pathetic and doesn't save the day. Better give him the right to choose. Having received freedom, a man will think about where he is better, remember all the good things that happened to you and, perhaps, will not destroy the family.
Step 5
If you decide to forgive your husband, then in the future, never make him scandals and do not remind him of this affair. Because endless scenes of jealousy will not bring comfort to your life.
Step 6
If the husband himself did not admit his betrayal, and your friends or acquaintances told you, do not exacerbate the situation. Take your time. Try to devote more time to harmony in the relationship, talk to him about the future firstborn. This will give him the opportunity to think about his action and make a decision. Usually the novels on the side end sooner or later.
Step 7
Therefore, if you feel the strength to wait out this situation, then you have the opportunity to save your family and wait for replenishment. And with the birth of a child, a husband can turn into an ideal father of a family.
