A date is a romantic affair, so it needs to emphasize the setting and mood. This requires certain words and smiles, music (albeit only in hearts, if only both could hear it) and, of course, flowers. But the first date is still just an acquaintance. Each will look at the other with the eyes of curiosity. The first thing that will be present is the expectation to see the hero of your dreams in front of you. Therefore, the desire to please and make an indelible impression is the most urgent.
Flowers as a gift
This version is supported not only by the desire to impress, but also by elementary good manners. Indeed, according to the rules of etiquette, it is necessary to present something pleasant even to an unfamiliar lady at a scheduled meeting. And what is better suited for this role, if the tastes, and the person himself, are still unknown? Of course, a bouquet of flowers. You should not rely on your taste in this matter, but it is better to act according to traditionally established rules. Roses are flowers that are relevant in the development of any scenario. There are so many different meanings in them that you can interpret the appearance of a bouquet in different ways. For example, if a guy likes a girl and wants to continue a relationship with her, flowers are presented to show his sympathy.
But, if the girl does not like it, or events do not develop in favor of further meetings, it can be shown that flowers are a simple sign of attention, and do not oblige either of the parties to anything.
When it was decided not to give flowers
Sometimes, nevertheless, someone can see a double meaning in the flowers on the first date. In order not to arouse those feelings and interest in one's personality that are still undesirable, a decision arises to come to the girl whom they see for the first time, without flowers. There is nothing surprising in this and cannot be. Most likely, a cautious person will do this. After all, he does not know the names of his favorite flowers, or the girl's attitude to bouquets in general (what if she is allergic). This line of behavior undoubtedly has its advantages.
For example, there is no “tinsel” that would distract two people from each other, but they need to be very attentive and focused to get the information that will help make a very important decision in their life.
Whatever the decision, it is important that while there is a controversy, whether it is necessary or not to give flowers on the first date, the tradition itself has not been forgotten. And there is a chance that if not at the first, then at the second or third meeting, the girl will still receive her bouquet.
What flowers to give
If, after weighing all the pros and cons, a young man inclines his heart to come on a date not empty-handed, another important question arises before him: what flowers to give? As mentioned above, the most traditional bouquet will be pink. But you can still consider other options. For example, what kind of feelings are overwhelming, and what flower can convey this attitude? Tenderness is described by lilies of the valley and lilies. Touching and excitement - chamomile and aquilegia. Confidence and serenity - tulips, roses, chrysanthemums, iris. Some men who love to be creative decide to give the girl at the first meeting even an orchid in a pot.
The variety of shapes, colors and sizes makes flowers the most memorable gift. The bouquet will always speak of the giver's attention and imagination.
