Many young people, from whom their beloved left, are wondering how to get their girlfriend back at all costs. This desire can only make sense if you are sure that the relationship has not come to its end point, and that something else can be saved, both on your part and on the part of the girl. How to get your ex-girlfriend to come back and restore feelings? There are several steps to help you renew your relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Think seriously about whether you really love the girl or just don't want anything to change in your life. If you are just used to it and do not want to work for a new relationship, there is no point in reviving old ones. If you really still have feelings, and you suspect that they are on the part of your friend, there is a reason to try to return her.
Step 2
When dealing with an ex-girlfriend, never make scenes or show your weakness. If she sees you as a weak and desperate person, she is unlikely to want to return. Learn to control your emotions, and if you need to complain to someone, invite a close friend to visit.
Step 3
Do not impose on the girl - do not ask her to return, do not blackmail, do not claim that your life is crumbling without her. These things are just repulsive.
Step 4
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and don't push the girl's feelings of pity. Try to develop the best qualities in yourself - improve those traits of yours that your girlfriend especially liked.
Step 5
Let the girl know that even if she's gone, you are always ready to talk to her as a friend. Be open and friendly, subtly showcase your best qualities, change for the better - she will notice it.
Step 6
To understand what exactly needs to be changed in yourself, reflect on what exactly led to the girl's desire to leave you. Remember her claims, think about what she might not like.
Step 7
Try to get rid of negative personality traits and problems that led to the breakup. Perhaps if a friend notices that the problem is no longer there, she will happily return.
