Perhaps one of the most unenviable situations a guy can get into is unrequited love. He loves the girl - sincerely, with all his heart. For him, she is the best in the world. And the girl? She also loves him, but as a friend. A close friend, reliable, sensitive and understanding, next to whom it is calm and comfortable, to whom you can frankly tell a lot. She is good with him, she likes him, but just as a friend. She does not perceive the guy as a man. So what to do, how to make a girl look at herself “differently”?
Instructions
Step 1
You can try the easiest way: take courage and honestly say that you love her. If you do not have enough determination to say it in words - write a letter, send an SMS message. Sometimes it works. But, alas, there is a possibility that she simply will not take your words seriously, taking them for a "friendly joke."
Step 2
Or maybe you have mutual friends who can tell her this secret. Perhaps it is not even worth saying that you asked for it, but simply hinting: "Look at him, it seems he is in love with you."
Step 3
Try to make her discover qualities in you that were unknown to her before. Remember: the weaker sex is not indifferent to strong, courageous men who have proven themselves in some risky business. Of course, here it is important not to go to extremes and not to risk too much and thoughtlessly. It is enough to pay attention to yourself, pump up the muscles, if you cannot boast of it, correct your posture, walk neatly dressed, tidy. Many guys do not consider this important, but in vain.
Step 4
Call attention to help. Collect as much information as possible about her. What does she like, what jewelry and perfumes she prefers, where she likes to spend her free time. And delicately, unobtrusively try to "provide" this, and if for this you need to learn how to make money - well, learn!
Step 5
Carefully, without any rudeness, wean her from the habit of contacting you almost hourly for any reason: for advice or sympathy. Let her stop seeing you as a "good friend." This method is good for this: from time to time, under a plausible pretext, disappear. And then, when you appear, present her with a gift, even a very modest one.
Step 6
And - try to overcome your shyness! Remember: women feel sorry for timid men, but do not like them.
