Someone else's guy often appears attractive. The girl dreams of him, but his ideal relationship with a rival haunts, she constantly puts herself in the place of that very girl, and this further inflames passion. Or maybe it’s not love, but “sports” interest - to win and prove to everyone your superiority? Well, then you should try to beat off the guy and finally understand your feelings.
Instructions
Step 1
If you know your rival personally Make friends with your rival and become the best friend of your friend's girlfriend so that you can be with them at any time. The girl, not noticing the catch, will introduce you herself and positively characterize you in his eyes.
Step 2
Become the absolute opposite of your new girlfriend. Contrasts attract always and in everything. Change your image to be completely different from his girlfriend.
Step 3
Find out how your opponent feels about her boyfriend by challenging her to a heart-to-heart conversation. Maybe she doesn't like him, maybe their relationship is just a pastime, and she has other fans. This information will be very helpful. And your conscience will cease to torment you.
Step 4
Support her when she complains about her boyfriend, but do not scold him or urge her to leave him. Just debunk his image in her eyes: “Men are all like that, and he is no better than others. It cannot be changed."
Step 5
Introduce your competitor to a trusted friend of yours and watch with him how she will respond to his courtesies and courtesies.
Step 6
Arrange a date with your rival with your buddy and find yourself with the guy of your dreams at the same time in the same place. The situation is banal and dastardly, but it has been tested for centuries and gives almost one hundred percent the expected result.
Step 7
Have pity on him, sympathize, show understanding and comfort.
Step 8
if you don't know your rival Become your boyfriend's best friend - “your boyfriend”, behave naturally and unobtrusively.
Step 9
Take an interest in his affairs (work, household), hobbies. Learn to listen and maintain a conversation. Men love when they are looked at with wide eyes, "look into their mouths" and are surprised at their intelligence, education and sense of humor.
Step 10
Find out better about what kind of behavior girls are more attracted to and depending on this: - with the help of your trusted friends, create the illusion of your popularity, so you will inflame his curiosity and interest in yourself, - appear in his eyes as an inaccessible girl who is not walks with just anyone, and whose attention is a reward for personal qualities and intellectual (external or other) exclusivity.
Step 11
Get his attention and get his favor by showing your best side.
Step 12
Ask him for advice or help with some life issue that he can certainly handle. Men love to feel like saviors who know how to come to the rescue.
Step 13
Be confident, cheerful, energetic and unobtrusive. Positive emotions attract people to themselves and make them want to communicate.
Step 14
In a heart-to-heart conversation, tell him your "secret" story so that the guy wants to feel sorry for you. Men like to think of themselves as powerful and all-powerful protectors.
Step 15
Become a close friend to him. Do not be annoyed when he complains to you about his girlfriend, try to justify her: "Well, she is the way she is, and nothing can be done about it."
Step 16
Never put a guy in front of the choice "either me or her." Let him want to leave the girl for you.
