It so happens that a guy and a girl maintain friendly relations, study or work together. She has long had tender feelings for him and notices a reciprocal sympathy in his eyes. But at the same time, the girl does not know how to make him invite her to meet.
How to nudge your boyfriend towards a relationship
If the guy does not take the first step, the girl thinks that she cannot change the situation. Tradition dictates that it is men who take steps towards rapprochement. It is best if he not only takes the initiative into his own hands, but also persists in seeking the attention of his chosen one. All of this is perfectly correct, but a smart girl can gently and discreetly nudge him along the way. Otherwise, it may happen that he does not understand that happiness was very close.
For a guy to offer to date, the girl needs to make him feel much better with her than without her. A young man must understand that as soon as she appears next to him, he begins to experience positive emotions. Then the guy will finally decide to offer her a serious relationship. Of course, in order to achieve the desired result, the girl will have to make some effort.
Work on yourself
First of all, you need to work on your appearance. After all, no matter how the girls relate to this, men first of all pay attention to the face and figure, and then they notice the mind and soul. So on the way to achieving your goal, you may need to look into the gym, hair salon, and beauty salon.
It is very important to find out what the interests, tastes and hobbies of the young man are, then it will be much easier to find common topics for conversation. At the same time, having found out which books, films or musical groups he prefers, you need to get to know them as well as possible so that communication is completely organic and the guy sincerely believed that he managed to meet a person so similar to him.
Men, no less than women, need compliments and enthusiastic glances, but this should be done quite subtly. Do not loudly admire the appearance of a young man. It is better to ask him for advice from time to time, laugh at his jokes, ask for his opinion on various issues.
In this case, in no case should you be intrusive. Too many positive emotions can get boring too. An uncomplicated and trouble-free technique is to disappear from his field of vision for a while, so that the guy begins to get bored and tries to find the girl who has already won his sympathy. Then you can suddenly appear and, as if nothing had happened, continue the communication. If the guy managed to get really interested, he no longer wants the girl to disappear from his life, and will invite her to meet.
