Have you been invited on a first date? This already says something. Now the main thing is to try not to disappoint the young man, who finally decided to take the first step. If the guy with whom you are going to meet is really interesting to you, you should not rely only on fate. Try to do your best so that the date is not limited to one date.
Instructions
Step 1
Be yourself first. Yes, it may be that during a date you will be able to get used to your pre-selected role, but remember that you are unlikely to be able to be someone else all the time. In addition, if you have already been invited to a rendezvous, it means that the guy liked you for who you are, and it is simply stupid to change yourself.
Step 2
On the first date, as a rule, there are many long, ridiculous pauses. Embarrassment takes its toll, and if the young man is not very talkative anyway, you yourself will have to carry on small talk. Believe me, he will certainly appreciate this gesture.
Step 3
In order not to fall face down in the dirt, make a list of topics in advance that you (and he too) will be interested in talking about. Try to find out his interests, depending on this, draw information from various sources. For example, if a young man is seriously into football and has a favorite team, try at least to find out the composition of its players, but best of all - read about its rating in the standings and study with whom she has played recently. If you have friends who are football fans, they will certainly tell you a lot of interesting facts that you can present skillfully and in a timely manner.
Step 4
On the first date, don't drink too much - it's repulsive. It is also not worth answering the standard question “tell me something about yourself” with all the details. Keep in mind that for a man, a woman should always remain a mystery, so sometimes you can remain silent, smile mysteriously, or delicately change the topic of conversation in another direction.
Step 5
Perhaps the most important rule when you first date a guy is not to have an intimate relationship with him that very night. As a rule, nothing good comes of it. Weigh the pros and cons: if you need a strong and long-term relationship, it is better to be patient a little, otherwise the man will consider you available. If all you want is sex, then why not? However, do not forget that casual relationships are fraught with the risk of getting sexually transmitted infections.
