The first date causes so many worries and fears. After all, you want to please the young man, impress and interest you on the first date. In this case, the main thing is not to worry, calm down, be yourself and follow a few simple recommendations.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not be nervous. Due to strong excitement, the reaction can be unpredictable: you will talk a lot and talk too much, or, on the contrary, shut up and answer questions in monosyllables. It is important to relax and get genuine pleasure from communication, to be friendly and relaxed. The tension is felt and creates the feeling that the guy is doing something wrong, and this spoils the impression of the first date and about you.
Step 2
Think about topics for conversation in advance. You will be calmer if you know exactly how to fill the awkward silence. Come up with at least 10 topics or funny stories to talk about. If you know where the first date will take place, try to learn interesting stories about the place. Then you can put it in place and show your reading.
Step 3
Choose the right topics for conversation. There are unwritten rules for a first date conversation that you should follow. Don't talk about past relationships, ex-boyfriends, problems, or other unpleasant topics, or brag about it. The conversation should be light, pleasant, relaxed and free of negativity. You can discuss what is happening around, for example, if you are walking in the park and saw dogs, you can discuss animals, your past pets, funny stories about animals.
Step 4
Take an interest in the guy. On the first date, you should be interested in your boyfriend, get to know him, and not just talk about yourself. But the interest should also be delicate, not in the form of interrogation. Find out the similarity of your views on certain things in order to understand your compatibility. Men love when they are sincerely interested in them and their opinions. But don't touch on the topics of income and former relationships.
Step 5
Flirt with a man. Do not forget that on a date you need to show interest in your companion - laugh at his jokes, smile more often, praise him, look him in the eyes and touch his hand a couple of times. But it is worth knowing when to stop and not overdoing it, so as not to seem too accessible. You should show interest, but you shouldn't settle for sex on the first date. It is difficult to interest the guy in this way, rather it will alienate him.
Step 6
Be yourself and enjoy the process. You don't need to control your every move, think over phrases and constantly think about the impression you make. You are not in the exam and should enjoy a pleasant company, and if you are really good together, everything will work out by itself.
