Letters, phone calls and video conversations cannot replace real communication in building relationships. A date is a very special event, it can lay a solid foundation for a relationship or even cancel out all the efforts put into communication.
Instructions
Step 1
Let go of worry. If you are invited on a date, decided to spend their time on you, it means that the man generally likes you. Therefore, you should not worry too much about the impression you will make. If you feel nervous, take a sedative. And don't be afraid to show your shyness - it looks really cute if you show it naturally. A man also worries about a future date (and often no less than a woman).
Step 2
Think about the emotional state of the man, help him overcome the awkwardness, lead him to topics in which he is an expert and can shine even the whole evening. And you will acquire knowledge in a previously unknown area, which is very useful in life. At the same time, appreciate his talent - usually gifted people know how to talk about difficult things in such a way that even a child will understand. And the ability to listen has always been highly valued. Train, and you, as a companion, will not be equal.
Step 3
Remember that you too are choosing, not just waiting to be appreciated. Therefore, analyze the behavior and reactions of the person with whom you are meeting. Men like choosy women if her demands are adequate to her own dignity. It's so flattering to be praised by a woman who has high standards. Therefore, you need to be confident, but without arrogance and snobbery. And you need to try to find all the best in a man. Listen to what good he says about himself, and try, replacing with synonyms, to retell him his own flattering characteristics.
Step 4
It is worth playing to increase your price. That is, imagine yourself desirable for so many men. Stories about your entertainment, which are initiated by the representatives of the stronger sex, will give him the idea that you are interesting not only for him. But you have to correspond - take care of yourself and really attract men's looks, words alone are not enough. If he sees on a date that men envy him, you will be doubly interesting to him.
