You have liked one girl for a long time, you spend a lot of time in the same company. But you don't know how to invite her to date you. There is nothing difficult here. Just stick to some general rules and things will go right.
Instructions
Step 1
Prepare for the conversation in advance. Find the words that you would like to say to her. There is no need to prepare a long speech, because at the most crucial moment you can fade away, and everything will fly out of your head. Just say that you like her, you would like to see her more often and communicate with her. Ask permission to hold it, and when you leave, arrange the next meeting.
Step 2
To attract the interest of a girl you like, carefully monitor your appearance and manners. After all, few people want to communicate with a guy in a dirty T-shirt and unkempt hair. Do not use harsh expressions in your speech, do not swear in front of her, and do not use jargon.
Step 3
Don't be too intrusive. Before proposing to date, observe a little how she treats you. If she likes you, she often looks in your direction, listens carefully, does not shy away from you when you approach. If a girl defiantly ignores you, at the slightest opportunity, she pulls back and walks away, does not listen to what you are talking about, maybe you should not try to impose on her with your relationship?
Step 4
Think about where you can invite the girl for such a serious conversation. You can just walk in the park and stop at an empty alley. You can take two tickets and invite her to go to the cinema. If you went out of town with a company or went to the rides, take a convenient moment, try to distract her and take her aside, where no one will bother you to talk.
Step 5
By her behavior and intonation, you will understand whether she likes it. If she is happy to accept your words, then expect to meet with her in the future. But it happens that a girl may say that she is not interested in you, and she does not want to be alone with you. Do not despair and grieve too much. You should also not try to meticulously find out the reason for the refusal. Maybe she likes the other guy, but why should she report to you about this? Don't be discouraged and look around. After all, how many other interesting girls are walking around! Consider that you have gained experience in making offers to meet, and now the second time you are sure to be more fortunate.
