The question of friendship between a man and a woman did not appear now or even yesterday. Women are perplexed why the representatives of the stronger sex offer them their friendship. However, even such a strange proposal has its own explanation.
The existence of friendship
Experts tend to believe that the concept of "friendship" does not exist. There are certain relationships between certain people. This relationship is traditionally called friendship.
Cynical people believe that such a relationship exists, but only between two women or men. However, there is no friendship between a man and a woman. They believe that a woman is necessary for a man only for certain purposes, for example, in order to maintain order in the house, wash and clean. A woman can act as a lover or wife, but not as a friend. Ladies simply do not understand for what purposes and why a man needs a woman friend at all.
Friendship between man and woman
In fact, men can actually make friends with a woman without any sexual connotation. The fact is that a man, just like a woman, wants to share his grief, perhaps even "cry" on someone's shoulder, complain about his health, even discuss some melodrama or his girlfriend. Yes, there are such men, and, moreover, they are not a rarity. Naturally, in his team, each representative of the stronger sex will "keep the brand", show his coolness. Of course, even in a purely male team, discussions arise on the topic of "Women-fools". But men do not discuss this issue in detail. On the other hand, in the same men's company, it is impossible to discuss the issue of what to give to your girlfriend or wife, what to do so that the woman you like draws attention to his person. With a woman friend, you can not only discuss all these things, but also get good advice. At the same time, a man may not be afraid that a woman to whom he entrusted some of his secrets or asked for advice can tell everyone what she knows. The fact is that any representative of the fair sex is flattered when they turn to her for advice, especially men. Therefore, the woman whom the man chose as a friend will keep the secret that was entrusted to her until the last moment. For her part, the girl can also ask her stronger friend for advice on any issue at any time.
A man who wants to see a friend in a woman has another goal. It is very important for him what ladies think about men in general and about specific specimens in particular. It is important for a representative of the stronger sex to know what and how a woman will do in some specific cases. It turns out that thanks to such friendly relations, the guy ultimately gains invaluable knowledge, which in the future helps him to build relationships with representatives of the opposite sex.
