All fathers and mothers faced tantrums in a child, but only a few were able to cope. What is the essence of childish tantrum? Why does it arise? How can you get rid of it quickly? These and other questions are asked by many parents.
First of all, hysteria is a violent manifestation of needs and desires. If the baby wants something very badly, but he is not given it or his desire is ignored, in this case, cries and tears appear. At a young age, a child cannot clearly formulate his thought and express his protest normally. Expressing his opinion, his protest, the baby trains willpower, which will be very useful to him in adult life. Therefore, you cannot break it. At this moment, you need to learn to negotiate with your child.
The mistake of many parents is that they consider such a manifestation of emotions an ordinary performance and prefer to simply close the child in the room.
If your child is throwing a tantrum again, do not try to shout out to him. Note! The quieter you begin to negotiate with your baby at this moment, the faster he will begin to calm down and listen to your words. Give up the commanding tone, try to ask the child with a request.
You can also offer your little one a deal, you are offering something in return for ending the tantrum. Important! You cannot stimulate a child with material values. Values should not be material - walking in the park, cycling, and more.
If a child has a tantrum in a public place, try to take him somewhere aside and conduct a conversation in the above ways.
In addition to all of the above, parents in such a situation should control their emotional state and not succumb to nervous overexcitation. You cannot respond to screams by shouting. Most importantly, try to stay calm and give as little negative reaction.
