We get to know people, communicate, get to know each other better and, on the basis of what we have heard or seen, we draw conclusions - whether a person is pleasant to us or not. On an intuitive level, we enjoy communicating with like-minded people. But how do you know if friendly feelings are mutual?
Instructions
Step 1
As the simple truth says - a friend is known in trouble. But the trouble is different. For a student, the real trouble is the test for which he has not prepared. Will a friend help him out in this case? He can give to cheat, if only he would stop poking at him with a pen, or he can deliberately turn away in order to give a lesson for life, showing what frivolity leads to. At the same time, he will sincerely regret his refusal to help. When a real disaster strikes, and many friends turn away, you need to pay attention to those who are nearby. It is those units who remained at a difficult moment to support a person not only in word, but also in deed, deserve to be called friends.
Step 2
A true friend will always intercede for his comrade, even if he understands that the strength is on the other side, and reprisals are inevitable. That's what friends are for, to get into stories together and come out of them just as amicably and together. A doubting friend, at best, will call someone else, or retire from the scene.
Step 3
To test a friend for strength, you can create an artificial problem yourself. For example, dissolve an unpleasant rumor about yourself and wait for the reaction of friends. Those friends who support the rumor about an unpleasant story and begin to whisper about this with other comrades, promoting the rumor to the masses, are not worthy to be called friends. And whoever has swallowed an invented rumor, as if it did not exist, continuing to communicate with you sincerely, is recognized as the best and most reliable friend. It happens that it is very difficult to meet sincere friends in life, not everyone is tested, but, nevertheless, confidence in your neighbor will never hurt.
